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The abusive man’s high entitlement leads him to have unfair and unreasonable expectations, so that the relationship revolves around his demands. His attitude is: “You owe me.” For each ounce he gives, he wants a pound in return. He wants his partner to devote herself fully to catering to him, even if it means that her own needs—or her children’s—get neglected. You can pour all your energy into keeping your partner content, but if he has this mind-set, he’ll never be satisfied for long. And he will keep feeling that you are controlling him, because he doesn’t believe that you should set any limits on his conduct or insist that he meet his responsibilities...###lesotho ##carolmotolofoundation ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##abuse ##childabuse ##emotionalabuse ##no ##nomeansno ##stopabuse ##stopsexualabuse ##stopsexualizingwomen ##activist ##socialactivist ##healingfromabuse ##domesticabuse ##rapevictim ##rapesurvivor ##healing ##africa ##enough ##enoughisenough ##.

The abusive man’s high entitlement leads him to have unfair and unreasonable expectations, so that the relationship revolves around his demands. His attitude is: “You owe me.” For each ounce he gives, he wants a pound in return. He wants his partner to devote herself fully to catering to him, even if it means that her own needs—or her children’s—get neglected. You can pour all your energy into keeping your partner content, but if he has this mind-set, he’ll never be satisfied for long. And he will keep feeling that you are controlling him, because he doesn’t believe that you should set any limits on his conduct or insist that he meet his responsibilities...###lesotho ##carolmotolofoundation ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##abuse ##childabuse ##emotionalabuse ##no ##nomeansno ##stopabuse ##stopsexualabuse ##stopsexualizingwomen ##activist ##socialactivist ##healingfromabuse ##domesticabuse ##rapevictim ##rapesurvivor ##healing ##africa ##enough ##enoughisenough ## ...

She cries in pain all alone, no one knows what she goes through each day. She wakes to screams, her own you see. The haunting memories of his hands against her skin...........###survivors’talesbycarolmotolo)##survivors ##saynotofgm ##saynotochildmarriage ##notoabuse ##endviolence ###writer ##africa ###carolmotolofoundation ###carolmotolo ##lesotho ###saynotobullying ##metrofm ##radio ##worldwide ##bbcafrica ##africanstories ##authors ##healing ##notorape ##savetheworld ##saveagirl ##.

She cries in pain all alone, no one knows what she goes through each day. She wakes to screams, her own you see. The haunting memories of his hands against her skin...........###survivors ’talesbycarolmotolo)##survivors ##saynotofgm ##saynotochildmarriage ##notoabuse ##endviolence ###writer ##africa ###carolmotolofoundation ###carolmotolo ##lesotho ###saynotobullying ##metrofm ##radio ##worldwide ##bbcafrica ##africanstories ##authors ##healing ##notorape ##savetheworld ##saveagirl ## ...

Ladies & Gentlemen i would like to introduce to you my new book ( Survivor ‘s tales). The book focuses on the incredible bravery and ingenuity of victims, the way they build a tunnel to get out of the war zone, they do this in microscopic amounts even if it takes them years or decades because on their own it is the best they can do. This book breaks down domestic abuse from the point of view of a victim/victims. It shows how willing they are to empower each other knowing that no one outside their experiences can grasp the agony they face alone, terrified in a war zone without human aid. 
This synthesis of the  research of Survivor’s tales  focuses on abuse of both genders,  we try to also break down issues such as “abuse of men by women” , it is a major breakthrough, showing what is happening, giving clarity, offering a new awareness of an issue that is commonly ignored and disregarded: the abuse of men by women, has the potential of becoming the instrument for measuring and defining partner abuse. I also offer solutions to relieve the suffering and devastation it causes.” The book points out that once the victim is free of his/her abuser they must still deal with the aftermath of the abuse which can make a victim vulnerable to other injurious personalities...after all sharks smell plight better than most, they are always searching for the wounded among us.

The bottom line is once victims understand how to spot an abuser they do their best to avoid persons with abusive traits.

If you would like to help someone who is out of her abusive situation  look for a good resource on personal safety because leaving an abuser means forcing them to give up their control, and it is during this period that victims are harassed, stalked, threatened, attacked, and / or murdered.##carolmotolofoundation ##activist ##notoabuse ##saynomore ##africa ##lesotho ##writer ##endviolence ##abusedmen ##saynotofgm ##saynotochildmarriage ##endviolence ##africa ##saveagirl ###notorape ##metrofmsa ##healing ##carolmotolofoundation ##carolmotolo##survivors’talesbycarolmotolo##writers ##.

Ladies & Gentlemen i would like to introduce to you my new book ( Survivor ‘s tales). The book focuses on the incredible bravery and ingenuity of victims, the way they build a tunnel to get out of the war zone, they do this in microscopic amounts even if it takes them years or decades because on their own it is the best they can do. This book breaks down domestic abuse from the point of view of a victim/victims. It shows how willing they are to empower each other knowing that no one outside their experiences can grasp the agony they face alone, terrified in a war zone without human aid. This synthesis of the  research of Survivor’s tales  focuses on abuse of both genders,  we try to also break down issues such as “abuse of men by women” , it is a major breakthrough, showing what is happening, giving clarity, offering a new awareness of an issue that is commonly ignored and disregarded: the abuse of men by women, has the potential of becoming the instrument for measuring and defining partner abuse. I also offer solutions to relieve the suffering and devastation it causes.” The book points out that once the victim is free of his/her abuser they must still deal with the aftermath of the abuse which can make a victim vulnerable to other injurious personalities...after all sharks smell plight better than most, they are always searching for the wounded among us. The bottom line is once victims understand how to spot an abuser they do their best to avoid persons with abusive traits. If you would like to help someone who is out of her abusive situation  look for a good resource on personal safety because leaving an abuser means forcing them to give up their control, and it is during this period that victims are harassed, stalked, threatened, attacked, and / or murdered.##carolmotolofoundation ##activist ##notoabuse ##saynomore ##africa ##lesotho ##writer ##endviolence ##abusedmen ##saynotofgm ##saynotochildmarriage ##endviolence ##africa ##saveagirl ###notorape ##metrofmsa ##healing ##carolmotolofoundation ##carolmotolo ##survivors ’talesbycarolmotolo##writers ## ...

This is all that matters, one individual at the time. Forever thankful 😘😘😘this truly is a beautiful way to start week 🙏🏿##changinglives ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##carolmotolofoundation ##survivors ##notorape ##nomeansno ##.

This is all that matters, one individual at the time. Forever thankful 😘😘😘this truly is a beautiful way to start week 🙏🏿##changinglives ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##carolmotolofoundation ##survivors ##notorape ##nomeansno ## ...

We need to get rid of bullying, we need to get rid of  Abuse. We need to get rid of harassment, we need to get rid of the casting couch, instead we need to build the bench👊🏿##carolmotolofoundation ##endchildabuse ##endabuse ##stopabuse ##.

We need to get rid of bullying, we need to get rid of Abuse. We need to get rid of harassment, we need to get rid of the casting couch, instead we need to build the bench👊🏿##carolmotolofoundation ##endchildabuse ##endabuse ##stopabuse ## ...

“Dream on it. Let your mind take you to places you would like to go, and then think about it,plan it and celebrate the possibilities. And don’t listen to anyone who doesn’t know how to dream.. best of luck to St.Rose High School students...##lesotho ##carolmotolo ##carolmotolofoundation ##issalivinginfaithmovement ##changinglives ##schools ##motivation ##love ##black ##africa ##bbcafrica ##.

“Dream on it. Let your mind take you to places you would like to go, and then think about it,plan it and celebrate the possibilities. And don’t listen to anyone who doesn’t know how to dream.. best of luck to St.Rose High School students...##lesotho ##carolmotolo ##carolmotolofoundation ##issalivinginfaithmovement ##changinglives ##schools ##motivation ##love ##black ##africa ##bbcafrica ## ...

One of the obstacles to recognizing chronic mistreatment in relationships is that most abusive men simply don’t seem like abusers. They have many good qualities, including times of kindness, warmth, and humor, especially in the early period of a relationship. An abuser’s friends may think the world of him. He may have a successful work life and have no problems with drugs or alcohol. He may simply not fit anyone’s image of a cruel or intimidating person. So when a woman feels her relationship spinning out of control, it is unlikely to occur to her that her partner is an abuser.##carolmotolofoundation ##lesotho ##stopbullying ##stopabuse ##enoughisenough ##africa ##abused ##abusedmen ##itendsnow ##.

One of the obstacles to recognizing chronic mistreatment in relationships is that most abusive men simply don’t seem like abusers. They have many good qualities, including times of kindness, warmth, and humor, especially in the early period of a relationship. An abuser’s friends may think the world of him. He may have a successful work life and have no problems with drugs or alcohol. He may simply not fit anyone’s image of a cruel or intimidating person. So when a woman feels her relationship spinning out of control, it is unlikely to occur to her that her partner is an abuser.##carolmotolofoundation ##lesotho ##stopbullying ##stopabuse ##enoughisenough ##africa ##abused ##abusedmen ##itendsnow ## ...

Why do you love to see me cry?
I'm all alone and you don’t see
that the words you say
the things you do
they all hurt
they hurt like a thousand knives
they hurt worse than a heartbreak 
more than the bite of a snake
it’s these things that you do
that make me want to go.
Leave and never come back
You thought these feelings I lack.
 But those words come with meaning
and for me words speak louder
than any action carried out
words that make me want to shout.
Scream from the rooftops
of a thousand buildings 
So again I say they hurt
they hurt when you call me names
they hurt when you refuse to look my way
when you refuse to see that on the inside I’m drowning.
Because of you I feel these things
so why do it?
why make me hurt?
I try to understand but all that comes is confusion.
What did I ever do?
So again I ask why make me hurt?
Why take something so fragile and put it in the dirt?###stopabuse ##endviolenceagainstwomen ##endgunviolencetogether ##carolmotolofoundation ###.

Why do you love to see me cry? I'm all alone and you don’t see that the words you say the things you do they all hurt they hurt like a thousand knives they hurt worse than a heartbreak more than the bite of a snake it’s these things that you do that make me want to go. Leave and never come back You thought these feelings I lack. But those words come with meaning and for me words speak louder than any action carried out words that make me want to shout. Scream from the rooftops of a thousand buildings So again I say they hurt they hurt when you call me names they hurt when you refuse to look my way when you refuse to see that on the inside I’m drowning. Because of you I feel these things so why do it? why make me hurt? I try to understand but all that comes is confusion. What did I ever do? So again I ask why make me hurt? Why take something so fragile and put it in the dirt?###stopabuse ##endviolenceagainstwomen ##endgunviolencetogether ##carolmotolofoundation ### ...

It was not a snap that broke her,
Or the purple on her skin.
It was a gentle fondling,
From a man she thought her kin.
It was not a dirty van that housed her,
It was the paradise that she lived in.
She fought to change the past,
To meet her future with a grin.
But day by day she drooped,
Her smile turned to sin.
Inside her head she heard
Silence through the din.
Her heart could not forgive
The places he had been.
It took years for her to realize
It was time to lift her chin.
Because at the end of the day
She knew he could never truly win.😢 😢##carolmotolo ##carolmotolofoundation ##lesotho ##notorape ##notoabuse ##notonemore ##notonmywatch ##notoviolence ##notoviolenceagainstwomen ###notoviolenceagainstchildren ###enoughisenough ##changinglives ##fightingdepression ##standingupformyself ##enddomesticabuse ##enddomesticviolence ##change ##africa ##activist ##voiceofthevoiceless ##.

It was not a snap that broke her, Or the purple on her skin. It was a gentle fondling, From a man she thought her kin. It was not a dirty van that housed her, It was the paradise that she lived in. She fought to change the past, To meet her future with a grin. But day by day she drooped, Her smile turned to sin. Inside her head she heard Silence through the din. Her heart could not forgive The places he had been. It took years for her to realize It was time to lift her chin. Because at the end of the day She knew he could never truly win.😢 😢##carolmotolo ##carolmotolofoundation ##lesotho ##notorape ##notoabuse ##notonemore ##notonmywatch ##notoviolence ##notoviolenceagainstwomen ###notoviolenceagainstchildren ###enoughisenough ##changinglives ##fightingdepression ##standingupformyself ##enddomesticabuse ##enddomesticviolence ##change ##africa ##activist ##voiceofthevoiceless ## ...

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The abusive man’s high entitlement leads him to have unfair and unreasonable expectations, so that the relationship revolves around his demands. His attitude is: “You owe me.” For each ounce he gives, he wants a pound in return. He wants his partner to devote herself fully to catering to him, even if it means that her own needs—or her children’s—get neglected. You can pour all your energy into keeping your partner content, but if he has this mind-set, he’ll never be satisfied for long. And he will keep feeling that you are controlling him, because he doesn’t believe that you should set any limits on his conduct or insist that he meet his responsibilities...###lesotho ##carolmotolofoundation ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##abuse ##childabuse ##emotionalabuse ##no ##nomeansno ##stopabuse ##stopsexualabuse ##stopsexualizingwomen ##activist ##socialactivist ##healingfromabuse ##domesticabuse ##rapevictim ##rapesurvivor ##healing ##africa ##enough ##enoughisenough ##.

The abusive man’s high entitlement leads him to have unfair and unreasonable expectations, so that the relationship revolves around his demands. His attitude is: “You owe me.” For each ounce he gives, he wants a pound in return. He wants his partner to devote herself fully to catering to him, even if it means that her own needs—or her children’s—get neglected. You can pour all your energy into keeping your partner content, but if he has this mind-set, he’ll never be satisfied for long. And he will keep feeling that you are controlling him, because he doesn’t believe that you should set any limits on his conduct or insist that he meet his responsibilities...###lesotho ##carolmotolofoundation ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##abuse ##childabuse ##emotionalabuse ##no ##nomeansno ##stopabuse ##stopsexualabuse ##stopsexualizingwomen ##activist ##socialactivist ##healingfromabuse ##domesticabuse ##rapevictim ##rapesurvivor ##healing ##africa ##enough ##enoughisenough ## ...

This is all that matters, one individual at the time. Forever thankful 😘😘😘this truly is a beautiful way to start week 🙏🏿##changinglives ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##carolmotolofoundation ##survivors ##notorape ##nomeansno ##.

This is all that matters, one individual at the time. Forever thankful 😘😘😘this truly is a beautiful way to start week 🙏🏿##changinglives ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##carolmotolofoundation ##survivors ##notorape ##nomeansno ## ...

A beautiful start to a week ....youths have a voice ....Grateful 🙏🏿❤️😘###carolmotolofoundation ##lesotho ##rapesurvivor ##nomeansno ##survivor ###.

A beautiful start to a week ....youths have a voice ....Grateful 🙏🏿❤️😘###carolmotolofoundation ##lesotho ##rapesurvivor ##nomeansno ##survivor ### ...

But even when I stop crying, even when we fall asleep and I'm nestled in her/his arms, this will leave another scar. No one will see it. No one will know. But it will be there. And eventually all of the scars will have scars, and that's all I'll be--one big scar of a love gone wrong....R300 a copy / R350 we courier nationwide. Please call/whatsapp +27817357278 for your order ##menhurttoo ##bbcafrica ##stopbullying ##stopabuse ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##enoughisenough ##metoo ##metoomovement ###carolmotolofoundation ##.

But even when I stop crying, even when we fall asleep and I'm nestled in her/his arms, this will leave another scar. No one will see it. No one will know. But it will be there. And eventually all of the scars will have scars, and that's all I'll be--one big scar of a love gone wrong....R300 a copy / R350 we courier nationwide. Please call/whatsapp +27817357278 for your order ##menhurttoo ##bbcafrica ##stopbullying ##stopabuse ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##enoughisenough ##metoo ##metoomovement ###carolmotolofoundation ## ...

One of the obstacles to recognizing chronic mistreatment in relationships is that most abusive men simply don’t seem like abusers. They have many good qualities, including times of kindness, warmth, and humor, especially in the early period of a relationship. An abuser’s friends may think the world of him. He may have a successful work life and have no problems with drugs or alcohol. He may simply not fit anyone’s image of a cruel or intimidating person. So when a woman feels her relationship spinning out of control, it is unlikely to occur to her that her partner is an abuser.##carolmotolofoundation ##lesotho ##stopbullying ##stopabuse ##enoughisenough ##africa ##abused ##abusedmen ##itendsnow ##.

One of the obstacles to recognizing chronic mistreatment in relationships is that most abusive men simply don’t seem like abusers. They have many good qualities, including times of kindness, warmth, and humor, especially in the early period of a relationship. An abuser’s friends may think the world of him. He may have a successful work life and have no problems with drugs or alcohol. He may simply not fit anyone’s image of a cruel or intimidating person. So when a woman feels her relationship spinning out of control, it is unlikely to occur to her that her partner is an abuser.##carolmotolofoundation ##lesotho ##stopbullying ##stopabuse ##enoughisenough ##africa ##abused ##abusedmen ##itendsnow ## ...

One of the obstacles to recognizing chronic mistreatment in relationships is that most abusive men simply don’t seem like abusers. They have many good qualities, including times of kindness, warmth, and humor, especially in the early period of a relationship. An abuser’s friends may think the world of him. He may have a successful work life and have no problems with drugs or alcohol. He may simply not fit anyone’s image of a cruel or intimidating person. So when a woman feels her relationship spinning out of control, it is unlikely to occur to her that her partner is an abuser.##abusedwomen ##stop ##carolmotolofoundation ##stopabuse ##stopbullying ##bbcafrica ##enoughisenough ##lesotho ##menhurttoo ##breakingthestigma ##survivor ##survivorstalescarolmotolo##africa ###.

One of the obstacles to recognizing chronic mistreatment in relationships is that most abusive men simply don’t seem like abusers. They have many good qualities, including times of kindness, warmth, and humor, especially in the early period of a relationship. An abuser’s friends may think the world of him. He may have a successful work life and have no problems with drugs or alcohol. He may simply not fit anyone’s image of a cruel or intimidating person. So when a woman feels her relationship spinning out of control, it is unlikely to occur to her that her partner is an abuser.##abusedwomen ##stop ##carolmotolofoundation ##stopabuse ##stopbullying ##bbcafrica ##enoughisenough ##lesotho ##menhurttoo ##breakingthestigma ##survivor ##survivorstalescarolmotolo ##africa ### ...