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#childhood #humiliating #lessons #quarries #shouts #screaming #debating #in #public #reduce #self #esteem #of #children #turning #future #adults #into #lower #self #esteem #lack #selfdetermination #selfconfidence #selfrespect #adults #solutions #instead #problems #artistsms Why do we leave our heads down so easily, why don't we always trust our own forces, why are we trying to make things work but we just don't succeed? Why are so many of 'Why?'s on so many plans? Are we less eager to carry out our everyday tasks, are we lazy, do we do our duties at the request of our colleagues or we leave our heads too easily due to the stugglins around us? I think problems are found somewhere in the childhood, because everyday I hear words in parks or on street like 'Why are you bad?' or 'Don't you dear do that thing again' or 'You're lazy, why can't you finish?' followed sometimes by 'Come on, it's enough' or 'I won't let you do this anymore!' All these words hurt a soul of a child who's doing only one thing - being a child and these wounds hide there for years without comming to light so soon, but, unfortunately, they can reappear in adulthood. And when people become adults, they won't find their state of mind, clasping their hands with their heads down, being affraid to speak for themselves to the others. There are quite a few people who feel embarrassed by certain situations, that they would prefer to leave everything and run, instead of speaking normally, due to their low self-esteem. Everyone's responsible for the choices in life, but sometimes it might be better to look for solutions in the first place, instead of searching for problems, as it is normal in any situation. We always sow the fruits of our crops.
#classic #classicalmusic #chopin #lizst #bach #beethoven #mozart #saens #debussy #strauss #schubert #schumann #mendelssohn #haydn #old #music #never #dies #spotify #playlist #fight #nervousness #anger #pain #sufferings #disgrace #hatred #contempt #rage #artistsms Try to overcome all the hatred, the anger, the rage or the nervousness, the pain and sufferings by listening to a classical music Spotify playlist, called 'Chopin', which can rearrange your thoughts more than you can ever imagine. The future actions and decisions are entirely depending on our state of mind, which at a certain moment in life is not in its best shape so, why not remodel it for a while?
#life #is #too #dynamic #people #hurry #everytime #carrying #faster #lifebags #drains #energy #speed #up #driving #faster #fills #window #with #more #water #calm #is #virtue #smart #people #often #take #brakes #live #longer #healthier #artistsms Carrying the shopping bags or the "lifebags" faster won't do anything more good than emptying sooner our batteries, designed for other more important jobs. Carrying the exact amount of bags required by our bodies will help us breathe and live better. Breaks are more important, sometimes, than the actual tasks performed in life, because the stress and sometimes the burdan gets bigger only because we allow it to be like this. It's the same thing that's happening with the window wipers from our car, the faster we speed up, the more filled with water they will get, by covering a longer street area in a smaller time. Due to this we will spend more energy with our window wipers for cleaning our view. Life is designed to be lived bit by bit, step by step, slowly, without speeding up all of our processes. Breaks have their own purpouse in life, as well, while we are running towards the same direction.
#anger #affect #people #many #reasons #health #more #important #than #other #people #choices #feelings #decisions #thoughts #towards #ourselves #big #judgement #emotional #inteligence #better #than #rage #anger #why #choices #affect #other #people #choices #artistsms Anger, anger, anger, uncontrolled or uncontrollable crises of nervousness, all come to light so easily, sometimes for the least reason. How do we manage to succumb to other people so simple without proof of small understanding? Somehow we are looking for reasons to annoy ourselves just because we let other people to bother us easily and involuntarily we attract negative energies instead of keeping them at a distance. Some people should understand that certain conflicts need to be absorbed before they start, as scams can not be found. It is not always necessary to show that we are stronger or more nervous, we can show that we are smarter, because that state of mind can only affect our health on the short or long term. At the same time, the state of nerve can be replaced with a simple cynical smile that could only save our day or friendship in order to settle or prevent a potentially painful conflict. Emotional intelligence should prevail in moments of maximum drowning intensity, that's why is called emotional intelligence.
#disgusted #instead #of #sympathy #people #lead #easily #to #quarrels #must #instead #of #why #disagreement #due #to #unfullfilled #tasks #make #people #show #contempt #childhood #education #habits #follow #adults #try #being #more #human #instead #artistsms Disgust, disillusion are just some of the expressions that could appear to these seemingly sweet lips. Why do these common features exist? Is no-one able to meet the standards of others? Are people no longer able to perform their tasks? Are we really so hard to satisfy? What does really mean the disgust of another person? It means that someone has failed to rise to the expectations and is entitled to judge sometimes without the right to appeal. Why does this attitude work, why do people fail to be more sympatethic with others, instead of starting quarrels? Why there are no more  compromises anymore, when problems appear? Because we can't even find the energy to close our eyes for small things, since it is easier to point the finger, instead of analyzing also the favorable parts of others who don't comply to our tasks? There are not so many of "Why?" anymore because we have been taught with MUST! NF not always with 'Why!'. I think that's the reason that the 'Must!' from the past or from childhood is determining people to show today so much contempt, from the least to the greatest reasons! There is no time or, involuntarily, we can't always find the energy to explain 'why' and that makes those lips behave differently from a suras and a good word of encouragement for a more fulfilled task of the future!
#childhood #came #out #while #baking #eggplant #house #cooking #small #chef #remind #about #lost #times #when #children #used #play #like #children #without #tight #schedule #having #time #explore #life #children #not #adults #artistsms I managed to bake and then clean some eggplants and instinctively I felt the sensation of a distant childhood, in which I was helping my grandmother and I remembered how I breathed and wet my hands in order not to burn my hands. There are still glimpse of memories or even big memories stuck in the mind, from the first years of my life, and with them, maybe a piece of the old child who used to love every small aspects of life. Personally I think it's good keeping that small part of a child that once was, together with it a little heart-of-a-child. Nowadays, instead, somewhere over the age of 8-10 years I can't see kids playing as they once did. Everyone now has the strict schedule, with the days programmed for different activities, and unfortunately, we don't let our children make mistakes anymore or let them organize their own few hours of a day even from the age of 5. Why? Why not let them develop their creativity and originality, without the increasingly virtual worlds? Why completely wipe out the scouts of another times who were eager to discover the new in a beautiful chestnut flower or in a stone throw to create those traces on the river. Where is the childhood, were they used to explore unhindered to stimulate their own imagination through all sorts of experiments and nonsenses, for whom they had to be forgiven by their parents. Why do we forget that children are children and not adults, why do we treat them too much as adults? Perhaps being at least a child is not really a bad thing, everyone is free to discern for himself.
#publicgarden #galatz #romania #under #clear #sky #is #prepared #street #food #festival #start #tomorrow #burgers #tortilla #grill #pizza #icecream #chicken #wurst #seafood #meatballs #shanghai #gyros #taiwanese #waffles #canolli #music #joyfullife #artistsms Sub cerul senin, incununat de o palida luna, se pregateste un festival al gusturilor, al aromelor si al muzicii, precum nu a cunoscut Galatiul vreodata. Sezonul gurmanzilor va incepe maine la pranz in Gradina Publica si, mai mult ca sigur, va incanta prin renumitele branduri din toata tara! Distractie placuta si cu bun gust!
#lietome #timroth #monicaraymund #first #serie #episode #unchained #best #life #lesson #ever #given #childhood #abuse #bully #turn #people #into #specialist #reading #attitude #personalities #abuse #turn #children #into #adults #unhappy #memories #destroy #life #artistsms One of the best TV series I've watched is the psychological "Lie to me!" and an unhappy, yet true life lesson comes from the episode 5 - "Unchained". There is a discussion about childhood and the reason why people can become specialist in reading minds and faces. Dr. Lightman says the followings: "When someone bashes you arround, just twice your size, wherever he feels like, you learn to read emotions pretty fast, so be addapt to survive, your abuse made you natural, he made you what you are!" Unfortunately I can say the same thing, since my childhood abuses and trauma, which, somehow, after years of sufferings, have lead me to the actual state of mind which can afford me to realize that I can speak with anyone without being frightened, just by knowing how and also who to speak with.
#theisland #ewanmcgreggor #scarlettjohansson #people #are #dying #instead #playing #god #cherish #believe #pray #have #faith #god #human #minds #experiment #devine #acts #changing #normal #life #order #clones #like #people #like #clone #artistsms In a not so far future, people like to play God, in experimenting the normal way of birth, by creating clones for the rich people to use their organs or parts. Even though genetics hasn't evolved in order to clone human beings, there is always a way to think that we can be, somehow, immortals. Probably by believing in God and preying for ourselves or for the others would have a bigger effect that thinking that in a not so far future people will be grown and not given birth to. There are still some normal ways of living this life, which still has a lot of beauties to offer!
#life #knowledge #brain #clear #mind #like #clean #field #brush #comb #brain #like #rake #field #through #friends #dreams #mindblowing #experience #drastic #change #exceptional #event #life #lifequotes #think #different #can #be #beautiful #again #artistsms I have raked a field filled with dry grass and after I have managed to gather a haycock, instinctively, I realised that the same thing can happen to us, since it happened to me. We can clear our minds with some special combs, which can represent things or persons, mindblowing experiences, some unexpected friends, exceptional events, a fatalistic dream, a drastical change, or a sudden strike, through all of them, together, somehow, the same way, it happened to me! Life can be really beautiful, if we find the strength to move on, in order to change our way of thinking, in a different direction than usually.
#arethafranklin #aretha #franklin #natural #woman #star #queen #of #soul #went #to #heaven #delight #angels #lost #souls #devotion #masterpiece #best #voice #will #never #be #forgotten #true #music #never #dies Today, the queen of soul passed away, leaving behind a masterpiece, an endless suite of songs, which will never be forgotten. He went up to delight the angels and all the lost forgotten souls, to hear the songs on which, millions of people have once danced a dance of heart or kissed their loved ones, several times. One day, all the good people go up to Heaven, and we are all left here to cherish their messages, for which, they gave their everything to compose neverending pieces of art.
#what #means #being #perfect #good #loyal #confident #trustworthy #human #best #friend #pal #child #inlove #good #manners #kind #voice #sympathetic #helpful #openminded #crystal #thinking #devoted #helping #nobody #perfect #someone #else #better #God #artistsms What means being perfect? Means forgiving all the defects of a person, means not distroying his personality throught day by day quarrels, remarks and comments. Means being open minded to everything and sympathetic with the other person, who is healing his wounds every day, which, sometimes, is a fight to prove he is almost perfect! Why can't we be perfect always? Because we still suffer without knowing due to the past that's still hunting us...Because there will be someone better than us, more handy to compare, even if that person doesn't really even understands you! So what means being perfect!? I really don't understand! All my life, from 5 years old, since nobody said I'm good enough, and being bullyed most of the times, I have tried to overcome my strength and powers and even so, I still think I'm not good enough! So, when do we have to stop comparing and trying to find that something side of someone, somewhere else? Why are we so hard to satisfy, because our senses don't think is enough, because there is always some better, or much better! That's why sometimes, as much as we would try we won't be able to say "Now I have changed enough to be perfect, there's nothing or no-one better than me..." impossible! Unfortunately, real or true perfection is achieved only by God Himself!

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